As a virgin, what does being ready really mean for me

What Does Being Ready Really Mean for Me?

As a virgin, what does being ready really mean for me? Honestly, that question can only be answered by you, but I will attempt to give you a generic answer.

To be ready means being willing to sexually explore not just your body, but your partner’s body. It does not simply mean losing your virginity; it means having sex, because those are not the same thing.

You could lose your virginity if someone was rough with you and put their finger inside you wrongly, or if you were involved in some rigorous physical activity that caused your hymen to break as a woman. As a man, you could expose yourself to something, and one casual sexual encounter is enough to do it for you. But in both cases, it does not mean you were ready.

And so, to be ready means to be intentionally willing to explore sexually—both your body and your partner’s body—to the extent that brings you the maximum amount of pleasure possible, even for you as a novice.