Why Your Body Hesitates to Open Up During Sex

Because your body has not found reason to open up. It's as simple as that. Biologically, the signals that turn you on start in your brain — not necessarily in your vagina or from having an erection.

So if you don't feel wet or erect, it's because you're not being stimulated biologically — you're not being stimulated in your brain.

Because until we fix that, you're not going to get turned on. If you don't get turned on, you're not going to get wet. You're not going to get erect. You might get aroused a little, but you won't be able to sustain it enough to have great sex.