What does my body need to get ready?
Ask your body. Listen to it. Your body is always saying something.
Rest and Readiness
For some of you, you simply need to go and observe a siesta so you can have sex later that night. Literally, just go and observe a siesta. Figure out what your body needs by listening to what it is saying.
When Anger Gets in the Way
If you are angry with your partner, you really do not want to have sex with them. It is not because you do not like them, but because you are so angry you need to process. And if you do not give that to your body, you may feel as though the sex was a manipulation to get you to the point where you speak to them.
Different Reactions to Anger
For some people, anger does not bother them in a way that tampers with their sex life. But for others, because they are familiar with being manipulated, such an experience will make them feel more manipulated, more vulnerable, and more defensive.
Listening to Yourself
What your body needs to feel ready is different for each person. This is why you need to be listening to yourself, dating yourself, and being present with yourself.
Balancing Pleasure and Self-Respect
It is not just, “Oh, I want to make my partner happy.” Yes, there is the fundamental place of making your partner happy and having pleasurable experiences. But if, in a bid to force yourself to have one sexual experience, you end up spoiling ten more, it does not make a lot of sense. It is not a good investment.
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