Can I face my triggers without running?

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Can I face my triggers without running?

Yes—but not immediately and not all at once. Facing triggers is not about forcing yourself into distress; it’s about building capacity. The key is regulation before confrontation. You need tools that stabilize your nervous system before you engage with painful memories.

Grounding techniques—like paced breathing, sensory focus, and somatic anchoring—help calm the fightorflight response. When your body is regulated, the trigger becomes less overwhelming. Over time, you learn to stay present rather than escape.

Trauma healing isn’t exposure therapy done recklessly; it’s controlled reconnection. You gradually reintroduce yourself to the memory in a safe environment, with safety tools and emotional support, until the trigger loses its intensity.

Running kept you alive once. But now, staying present—slowly, gently, with support—helps you heal.

You don’t have to be fearless. You just need to be regulated.

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tolusefrancis Toluse Francis is a renowned mental health therapist, certified life coach, trainer, and consultant dedicated to promoting emotional well-being and resilience. Therapy and Coaching Expertise Approach: He uses evidence-based techniques from behavioral sciences, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). Specialties: His areas of expertise include: Anxiety and Depression Trauma, Grief, and Loss Relationship Issues Habits and Addiction Workplace Mental Health Focus: He is committed to helping individuals move past negative experiences, overcome poor mental health, and focus on their future with enthusiasm. Professional Roles and Advocacy Founder: He is the principal and CEO of Reuel Consulting Ltd, a firm specializing in helping organizations and individuals move toward measurable mental health action. Leadership: He has served as the African Regional Vice President and a Board Director for the World Federation for Mental Health (WFMH), overseeing activities in the African region. Public Profile: He is a sought-after writer, public speaker, and media contributor on mental health, personal growth, and emotional intelligence, working to break mental health stigmas. Toluse Francis holds a B.Sc. in Biochemistry and a Diploma in Mental Health and Psychology. He has over 7 years of experience in the field, with sessions typically conducted online.